Greenhithe · Kent · On the Thames

Ingress Abbey

A Grade II listed Tudor Gothic mansion overlooking the River Thames, Its grand rooms, gardens and grounds are available for weddings, celebrations and private events.

Weddings

Grand rooms, gardens and the river

From the house, stone stairs and lawns fall away to the Thames. Your hire includes the Abbey's grand rooms and principal spaces, plus all of the gardens and grounds. The house itself has nearly two centuries of history, and the estate more than six.

Marry here under our civil ceremony licence, or hold the ceremony elsewhere and bring your guests back for the reception. Drinks flow through the Gold Room, the Hall and the Orangery. Dine indoors, or in a marquee in the grounds.

As a dry-hire venue, you choose your own caterer and suppliers from our approved list, and you can bring your own DJ or band.

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Gates with statues looking across to the lawns at Ingress Abbey

Private events & celebrations

For every kind of gathering

The same rooms that frame a wedding work just as well for milestone birthdays, anniversaries, family celebrations, corporate dinners, away days and launches.

The Abbey's Gothic interiors, gardens and river views also make it a distinctive location for photo and film shoots.

Each booking includes exclusive use of the grand rooms, principal spaces and gardens, with a commercial kitchen for your caterers and parking on site.

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The Orangery set for dining

The spaces

Rooms, courtyard & gardens

The Orangery

The Orangery

A light-filled room for drinks or dining.

The Gold Room

The Gold Room

An elegant room for drinks receptions and dining.

The Hall

The Hall & Gothic Gallery

The central hallway beneath the Gothic gallery, at the heart of the house.

The flagstone courtyard at Ingress Abbey

Flagstone courtyard

An open-air courtyard for drinks and mingling.

The back lawn with Ingress Abbey behind

Gardens & marquee space

Formal gardens with room for a marquee for larger dining.

Front lawn and grounds

Front lawn

Lawns running towards the Thames, available by arrangement.

History

Six centuries by the river

1363Edward III endows the manor on the Dominican nuns of Dartford Priory, who farm the land and work its chalk. Jane Fane, Abbess of Dartford, is the last to hold it.

The DissolutionHenry VIII keeps the estate and has it rebuilt as a royal retreat for his journeys to the coast.

1763–1772John Calcraft commissions Capability Brown to reshape the park and open up views to the Thames.

1833The present house is built for James Harmer, Alderman of the City of London, to a Tudor Gothic design by Charles Moreing. It is said to include stone from Old London Bridge, and the grounds hold several follies.

Victorian eraJames Harmer holds parties at Ingress Abbey for London high society. The poet Eliza Cook lives here and writes poems including “The Old Armchair”.

20th centuryFrom 1922 the estate is home to the Thames Nautical Training College. Its ships, including HMS Worcester, lie moored in the Thames off Greenhithe, and for decades the Abbey and grounds serve the college. The Cutty Sark arrives at Greenhithe in 1938. Prince Philip attends the 1953 ceremony at which the college's Cutty Sark is handed over for preservation, and in 1962 Queen Elizabeth II and the Duke of Edinburgh visit for the college's centenary prize-giving.

21st centuryIngress Abbey returns to its original use as a family estate.

Ingress Abbey

Stay over

The Coach House

The whole Coach House is available to book for accommodation as an optional extra, for a separate fee. You can book it for the night before and the night of your wedding. It's a peaceful place to get ready and to come back to afterwards.

  • Two large king-size bedrooms
  • A mezzanine bedroom with a queen-size bed
  • Sitting room, dining area and kitchen
Ask about the Coach House
The Coach House exterior

Imagine your day

Picture the possibilities

Please note: every image in this section is an AI-altered visualisation of the original room, for illustration only. These are not photographs of real events. For real photographs of the Abbey, see the gallery.

Gold Room: AI-altered visualisation of the original room, for illustration only
Gold Room
AI-altered visualisation of the original room, for illustration only
Orangery: AI-altered visualisation of the original room, for illustration only
Orangery
AI-altered visualisation of the original room, for illustration only
Orangery: AI-altered visualisation of the original room, for illustration only
Orangery
AI-altered visualisation of the original room, for illustration only
Hallway: AI-altered visualisation of the original room, for illustration only
Hallway
AI-altered visualisation of the original room, for illustration only
Staircase: AI-altered visualisation of the original room, for illustration only
Staircase
AI-altered visualisation of the original room, for illustration only
Entrance: AI-altered visualisation of the original room, for illustration only
Entrance
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Courtyard: AI-altered visualisation of the original room, for illustration only
Courtyard
AI-altered visualisation of the original room, for illustration only
Courtyard: AI-altered visualisation of the original room, for illustration only
Courtyard
AI-altered visualisation of the original room, for illustration only

Practical information

Good to know

25–75 guestsDesigned for intimate weddings and events.
From £5,000 per dayDry hire, including the spaces and cleaning.
Exclusive useExclusive use of the grand rooms, principal spaces, gardens and grounds.
Civil ceremony licenceMarry on site, or hold the reception only.
7am – midnightAccess from 7am. Music ends at 11pm and the venue is vacated by midnight.
Approved suppliersCatering and other services come through approved suppliers. The commercial kitchen is available to them.
Your musicBring your own DJ or band.
ParkingAbout 30 spaces. Cars may be left overnight until 11am.
AccessibilityStep-free ramps and an accessible WC.

Getting here

Easy to reach from London & Kent

Ingress Abbey
Prioress Crescent
Greenhithe, Kent DA9 9UR

Directions to the car park entrance (for drivers and sat nav)
Front of the Abbey on Google Maps

By road: close to the M25, with parking on site.
By rail: Greenhithe station is nearby, and Ebbsfleet International is a short journey away.

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Enquiries

Come and see the Abbey

To check availability, arrange a viewing or talk through your plans, please contact Lynsey Gorman.

Lynsey Gorman
lynsey@jjspaces.com
020 3051 9240


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